This is a recent book based on ACT theory (Acceptance and Commitment Therapy). While I still like the gold standard ACT book “The Happiness Trap” by Russ Harris, this book has some really nice features that might be worth the purchase. I will say that I do not particularly like the title of this book – I can see people thinking “well I’m not really an avoider” and therefore not thinking this book is for them. But it’s not really about avoiding per se; it’s about not living a vibrant life because of fear (which is avoiding I guess, but I still don’t love the choice of words). What I’m saying is that I can’t think of anyone this book wouldn’t apply to and I think they have unnecessarily narrowed their audience.
One thing I love about this book is that it breaks all the concepts down into “microskills”, which means that if you are too busy to sit and read this book cover to cover, no problem! You can simply open up, read “microskill 1” (or whatever skill you think you need) and then get to work putting it into practice.
The skills are bunched together in categories, like working with thoughts, working with emotions, figuring out your values, working on willingness and so on. The last three skills are kind of a summary, so if all you have is a little time, start there.
This would be a great copy to own if you are a therapist and a good suggestion for just about any client. As a client or regular person it’s a good book if you ever feel you are not living your best life. Link for purchase is below. Also, if you do not have time to read this book but want the information, try my new summary download for $3 in the shop!
